I wish I could take credit for these, but I recently researched for some tips on how to utilize social media without letting it feeding and bloating your ego and received some excellent recommendations. Always ask the holy spirit to keep you in alignment with God our father, so that you aren’t completely navigating life without his help and guidance:
Running a social media site about letting go of ego is tricky because the very act of “being seen” online can feed the same ego you’re trying to transcend. But it is possible to approach it in a way that stays true to your message. Here are some practical principles to help you avoid relapsing into ego while sharing content:
1. Shift the Focus Away From “Me”
Post in service of the message, not your image. Write in a way that emphasizes the teaching or insight rather than your personal brand. Use “we” or neutral voice where possible instead of “I,” unless sharing a personal story that helps others relate.
2. Treat the Platform as a Practice
Before posting, pause and ask: Am I sharing this to help others, or to seek validation? If you notice yourself craving likes, followers, or praise, treat that as part of the practice—observe it, but don’t indulge it.
3. Encourage Dialogue, Not Authority
Instead of positioning yourself as “the teacher,” create space for conversation. Ask reflective questions at the end of posts to invite others into the discussion. Share content from other voices that align with the message of letting go of ego.
4. Stay Anonymous or Decentralized
If personal credit tempts your ego, consider running the page under a collective name, pseudonym, or theme (e.g. Ego’s Undoing rather than your real name). This keeps the spotlight on the message rather than the messenger.
5. Let Go of Metrics
Avoid obsessively checking analytics. If possible, hide like counts or use tools that let you post without seeing numbers. Remind yourself: impact isn’t measured in reach—it’s measured in resonance.
6. Practice What You Post
Each post can be a reminder for you too. Don’t just write about letting go of ego—use the act of creating and sharing as your own daily practice in releasing it.
7. Accept Impermanence
Be okay with losing followers, getting criticism, or having a post flop. That, too, is a practice in letting go.
Avoid Online Arguments At All Costs
Online arguments are purely a battle of the egos and its desire to be right. Especially worse is when it’s with total strangers. Pro Tip: You will never convince them half the time even if you have a superior argument that stomps on theirs.
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